Olympian Tom Daley branded a ‘national treasure’ for his BBC documentary Illegal to Be Me – Daily Mail

Tom Daley has been branded a ‘national treasure’ following the broadcast of his BBC documentary Tom Daley: Illegal to Be Me, which shows the athlete campaigning for the Commonwealth Games to be more LGBTQ+ friendly.

The Olympic gold medalist, 28, came as gay in 2013, and wed filmmaker Dustin Lance Black in 2018.

While making his documentary, he spent four years visiting the ‘most homophobic countries in Commonwealth’ in a bid ‘to explore how gay athletes are facing extreme persecution’.

What he learnt during filming prompted him to change his initial opinion that countries with anti-LGBT laws should be banned from hosting sports events – instead concluding that banning countries from hosting these events ‘puts a target on the back of LGBT people in that country’.

Responding to the programme, which aired on BBC 1 tonight, a number of people praised the athlete, with one Twitter user branding him a ‘national treasure’.

They wrote: ‘Just putting it out there now before the hate starts. Hands off Tom Daley #nationaltreasure @BBCSport @BBCOne #TomDaley: illegal to be me.’

Another added: ‘We don’t deserve #TomDaley – what a smart, poised, beautiful young man he is. #loveislove’

A third said: ‘This #tomdaley doc is heartbreaking. I led campaigns on LGBT rights for amnesty in several countries and know just how hideously oppressive these laws are. Solidarity and thank you.’

And a further Twitter user added: ‘#tomdaley needs to be congratulated and thanked for his excellent and intelligent reporting, Illegal to be me #BBC @TomDaley1994 Is a real champion in so many ways.”

At the outset of the documentary, Tom Daley says his wish is to stop countries with anti-LGBT laws from hosting the games. ‘I know that is a bold wish,’ he says, ‘but it has to start somewhere to create some change.’

But, during an interview promoting it, Tom said he has changed his view that countries with anti-LGBT laws should be banned from hosting sports events.     

He said that discussing the issue on his documentary with one interviewee, a ‘quite controversial’ Pakistani popstar, changed his perspective. 

‘It opened my eyes to so many different things, where the laws came from, where that homophobia stemmed from in the first place and it is a legacy of colonialism and speaking to him in particular was very eye-opening.’ 

Speaking this morning on BBC Radio 4‘s Today Programme, Daley said homophobic countries should be allowed to host sporting events as banning them ‘puts a target on the back of LGBT people’. 

‘Coming in and saying ‘we can’t host a competition’ puts a target on the back of LGBT people in that country as in ‘they are the reason why we can’t host this competition’,’ he said.

‘So being able to approach it with less oppression and giving people the opportunity to learn and to grow in a way that, for example, having the pro-LGBT rights stance at the forefront of the Commonwealth games ethos for example narrows out certain countries that would be able to host it for example. 

‘Not saying they can’t host it but saying they have to put it at the front of their ethos.’

The athlete suggested that a solution would be to encourage countries with homophobic laws to display rainbow flags at sports events to give athletes and fans ‘a sign of safety’.

‘Here in the UK we take for granted our privilege and the fact that we see rainbow flags in places, but for those people around the Commonwealth where their existence is illegal, that is a sign of safety and is a beacon of hope.

‘Being able to include LGBT flags in stadiums and also in sporting events so those people feel safe and they feel welcome, they feel seen, and also being able to give people the access to the correct support and safety measures if their life is in danger.’

In the documentary, Daley speaks to Nigerian LGBT rights activist Bisi Alimi, who fled the country after he came out on TV, with same-sex activity criminalised there. 

Alimi shows the athlete legislation from 1923 Nigeria, in which ‘indecent practices between males’ is listed as a crime.

He explains that this later became known as ‘the gay law’ in Nigeria. 

‘The moment this law came into existence became the moment in history when homosexuality became a criminal offence in Nigeria,’ he said, adding that the law was imposed by Britain.

The sportsman then asks Alimi why Nigeria has not removed the law.

‘You have to understand it is not just legislation in a book. It became part of school curriculum, it became part of religious principles that the colonialists used in educating the ‘natives’.

‘And then post-colonial you have the emergence of the Evangelicals who still believe homosexuality is immoral.’

Politics professors Enze Han and Joseph O’Mahoney, who wrote a key work on the issue called ‘British Colonialism and the Criminalization of Homosexuality’, have argued it is a complex picture.

In their research they tested ‘the still quite prevalent idea that British imperialism “poisoned” societies against homosexuality’, but argue that evidence to back this up is ‘inconclusive at best’.

‘We looked in some detail not just at the historical origins of these countries’ anti-homosexuality laws, but of the contemporary political processes that have so far prevented some of them from scrapping the laws,’ they write on The Conversation.

Based on our research, we argue that the evidence in favour of the claim is inconclusive at best. 

‘Among former colonies with laws like these, former British colonies do not seem to have decriminalised homosexual conduct any more slowly than colonies of other European states. 

In their work they explain how, from 1860, the British Empire implemented legal codes outlawing intimate relationships between men, leaving what they describe as an ‘institutional legacy’.

‘This suggests that the “stickiness” of repressive institutions is relatively consistent across different countries and histories, and not specific to a particular type of colonialism.’ 

Twitter users have questioned the link between British colonialism and anti-LGBT discrimination, with a number pointing to hardline religious countries most commonly outlawing gay sex.

Barrister Rupert Myers wrote: ‘Great to hear Tom Daley on @BBCr4today – a wonderful athlete – not convinced homophobia in some countries is entirely a ‘legacy of colonialism’ though. Saudi Arabia, Iran & Ethiopia were never colonised, and are virulently homophobic countries.’

However, journalist Benjamin Butterworth wrote: ‘@TomDaley1994 is right that Britain exported homophobia around the Commonwealth,’ and added that ‘Britain needs to right its historic wrongs.’

A total of 35 of the 54 Commonwealth countries have laws criminalising homosexuality as of July last year, according to government research. 

Daley, who did not compete in this year’s games, has said that after a recent awakening to the realities facing other LGBT athletes, he is now planning to spend more time advocating for gay rights.

‘I was competing in the Commonwealth Games, I had just won a gold medal, and was sitting having a burger with my husband and mum.

‘It dawned on me that I don’t have to worry about any of the ramifications of that,’ he told The Big Issue.

‘I thought about how fortunate I am. Because in over half the Commonwealth countries that are competing, it is illegal to be queer.

‘That was when I started researching how that can be campaigned against, and what can be done in the world of sport to help influence that.

‘Because sport has a real power for change.’ 

Daley, who is married to and has a son with Oscar-winning filmmaker Dustin Lance Black, listened to the the struggles of LGBT athletes while travelling around the Commonwealth.

He said: ‘One of the athletes in Pakistan said to me I was the first gay man she’d ever knowingly met.

‘When I told her I have a husband and we drop our son to nursery, I cried, and then she cried too.

‘She had this moment of imagining what it would be like to be able to have a wife, to be able to have kids.

‘She was asking what I could do to get her out of the country, it was really a lot.

‘So it is going to be a heavy documentary but it’s things that people need to hear.’

 

He also told BBC Radio 4: ‘I received an anonymous letter from a gay male athlete which again talks of suicide, talks of how they’re never going to fit in of no hope for the future that they are ever going to be themselves. It was really quite heartbreaking to hear some of the stories.’

The Commonwealth Games medal winner said that his aim with the documentary is to ‘convince it to become the first sporting event to really take a stand.’

The athlete, who received an OBE for services to diving in July, has now spoken with the president of the Commonwealth Games Federation to push for change.

This year the World Cup will be hosted in Qatar and the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Saudi Arabia, both of which are Muslim countries and have the death penalty for same-sex sexual activity enshrined in law.

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